Ask a realtor how they would price or shop for your home, what their written plan includes, how they market and negotiate, how often they will update you, what they charge and what is included, and how you can end the agreement. Compare the answers side by side and choose the clearest, most specific plan.
Why the interview matters
You are hiring someone to manage one of the biggest financial moves you will make. A 30 minute conversation, with the right questions, tells you how that person thinks and works.
Questions for any agent
- How long have you worked in my area, and what have you sold or bought near here recently? Local proof matters in St. Louis, where two blocks can mean different prices.
- What is your plan for me, in writing? Look for a timeline, steps and who does what.
- How will you communicate, and how often? Ask for a specific schedule.
- Who else will I work with? Some agents have teams, assistants or transaction coordinators.
- What do you charge, and what is included? Commissions are negotiable and not set by law. Ask exactly what services the fee covers.
- How long is the agreement, and how can I end it? Know your exit before you start.
- Can I talk to recent clients or read reviews?
Questions for a listing agent (selling)
- What price would you list at, and which sales support it? Ask to see the comparable sales.
- What should I fix or update, and what will it cost? A good agent tells you what is worth doing and what is not.
- How will you market my home? Photos, video, online listings, open houses, outreach to buyer agents.
- What will I net? Ask for a seller net sheet with every cost listed. See the cost to sell in St. Louis.
- What happens if it does not sell in the first few weeks? Listen for a plan, not a shrug.
Questions for a buyer's agent (buying)
- What will our written buyer agreement say? Since 2024, agents working with buyers sign a written agreement before touring homes. Ask what it covers and how compensation works.
- Which lenders do you work with, and how do you keep them updated? Clear lender communication protects your closing date.
- How do you help me write a strong offer without overpaying? Ask about recent offers they have written in your target area.
How to compare answers
Put the answers in a simple table: plan, local proof, communication, fee and what is included, agreement terms. The best choice is usually obvious once you see it on paper.
My answers, in writing
I put my answers into a written plan before you decide anything. Get your Clear Path Plan or check your home value.
Listen for these answers
- Specific numbers, not "it depends" on everything
- Local examples from your neighborhood or a similar one
- A clear process with dates and responsibilities
- Honest trade-offs, such as "this update will not pay back, skip it"
Answers that should give you pause
- Promises of a price without comparable sales
- "Everyone charges the same," which is not true; fees are negotiable
- No plan for what happens if the home does not sell, or if your offer is not accepted
- Reluctance to put anything in writing
Bring this checklist to every interview
Print the 15 questions, write each agent's answers in the margin, and ask for their written plan afterward. Then compare the plans side by side. The choice usually becomes clear within a day. For more on the process, see how to choose a real estate agent in St. Louis.
Frequently asked questions
What is the most important question to ask a realtor?
Ask for their written plan for your situation. It shows how they price, prepare, market and communicate, all in one answer.
Should I ask a realtor about their commission?
Yes. Commissions are negotiable. Ask what the fee is and exactly what services it includes.
Do buyers have to sign an agreement with an agent?
Under practice changes that took effect in 2024, agents working with buyers enter a written agreement before touring homes. Read it and ask questions before signing.
How do I know if an agent knows my neighborhood?
Ask for recent sales or purchases nearby and what they learned from them about price and buyer demand.
About the author: Stephanie Muhlenfeld, PMP, REALTOR® with LPT Realty. Stephanie helps buyers and sellers across St. Louis City and St. Louis, St. Charles, Jefferson and Franklin Counties move with a plan, not pressure. (314) 597-7494.
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